Today, from a friend, only I realised that these years I had change quite a lot.
I used to be someone who always keep everything in myself and making myself shut. Everyday, I had full of sadness behind my smile. However, since college, i spoke up my minds straight most of the time (of course not always). I will straight away tell you how i feel. maybe i will show it in a very obvious way to tell u that: I AM UNHAPPY.
ok, this might be not a good thing as might cause some misunderstanding sometimes. I will try my best to control my temper. However, i can say, these days my temper is much much better.
Trying to make myself always in a happy mood these days, and i found that I have quite a lot of improvement. Despite the stress that Mr Rigid gave me few weeks ago, I found that my mood isn't that bad. Although the school workload increases dramatically these few weeks, I am quite enjoying it, as i know that I am not alone. It is the company that counts.
Everytime I am quite down, happy that there is "someone" who i can tell my feelings to. I will type on it, many of my friends will come and left some comments about it. A short "cheer up" comments means a lot for me =)
It is YOU, my friends that keep me walking until today... I feel lucky to have a nice family and good friends around me. =)
Hope i can grow stronger and mature...
Hope i can grow stronger and mature...
学会更直接的表达想法与感受,并非坏事,用情绪和脾气,也是人之常情,只要懂得控制与乔当的用词,直接的表达或发泄出来,总好过背地里伤心难过。。。有时误会,也得看对方对你的了解。。。若怕误会而选择沉默,同样还是会被误会,倒不如说出来。。。
ReplyDelete说实话,之前腼腆,安静的建玮,很可爱。现在,稍稍多话,稍稍害羞的建玮,也很赞!
其实,变并非坏事啦,人生随着年龄增长,心智与思想,并定有所改变,只要没有变坏,不就得了。。。